Fact Check: Are Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko from The Bachelorette still together?

Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko (Image via Instagram/@charitylawson)
Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko (Image via Instagram/@charitylawson)

Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko from season 20 of The Bachelorette are very much together. But fans got curious about their relationship status after the couple decided to play a prank on their followers on April Fools Day.

On April 1, 2024, Charity and Dotun both deleted pictures of their engagement and posted cryptic messages on their story to draw more attention to their deleted pictures. One of the messages read:

"Learn to let go of what does not want to be held."

However, they didn't keep fans on the edges of their seats for long because they came clean not long after. Dotun posted a story of Charity on the Cali airport, ending any negative speculation, with the caption:

"Just landed after a looong week in Cali... what'd we miss on this wonderful April Fools Day?"

Revealing to the fans that they were pranked, and assuring them that she and him were still very much together. Their most recent post together was made on April 23, 2024, when the couple attended the promotion of a book tour.


Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko's journey on The Bachelorette season 20

Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko's story unfolded on The Bachelorette season 20, which premiered in June 2023. The season started with 25 contestants and was reduced to 2 finalists by the last week. Charity was put in the tough spot of choosing between Dotun Olubeko and Joey Graziadei.

Her love for Dotun peaked above all as she respectfully sent Joey Graziadei home and said yes to Dotun when he went on one knee. Fate had its plans for breaking Joey Graziadei's heart because if not for Charity, Joey wouldn't have found his perfect partner in Kelsey on The Bachelor season 28.

Fate also played its tricks when Dotun Olubeko was introduced to Charity as the last or 25th contestant in episode 1, but happened to win the season, securing first place.

On the After the Final Rose episode of The Bachelorette season 20, Dotun became the one to reveal to his new fiancé that she was selected to be on Dancing with the Stars season 32.

Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko both honored their engagement on their Instagram pages by posting images from their big day in August. Their last post as a couple was dated April 19, and has a video featuring the two with the caption:

"I choose you...now and forever."

When will Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko tie the knot?

Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko are set to get married in 2025, according to what Charity revealed on the Golden Wedding special, which aired in January this year.

In the Q&A session, a fan asked for the reason for their wait till 2025. Charity said that they were simply stalling their wedding till 2025 because they wanted to plan it thoroughly. She said:

"Planning. Simple as that. I think a lot of y’all forget or may not know what all has to go into wedding planning, and for me, I personally do not want to plan a wedding in a rush of 5 months. I choose peace and not stress which I will experience regardless cause it’s wedding planning".

Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko moved to New York City from their initial place of residence, Los Angeles, after she was done filming Dancing with the Stars. In the interview, she was asked how her transition had been, to which she replied that it was just what she needed and that they were taking time to decorate their new house. This also might be another reason for them waiting out their wedding.


Jenn Tran from season 28 of The Bachelor is the next Bachelorette, and her season of the show will drop on June 1, 2024.

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