Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder - when strangers become caregivers

Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder is an uncommon attachment disorder in children. (Image via Freepik/ Freepik)
Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder is an uncommon attachment disorder in children. (Image via Freepik/ Freepik)

Young children might develop Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder (DSED), a behavioral disorder. Children who suffer from this attachment disorder find it difficult to emotionally connect with others. Nonetheless, you can find that kids with DSED can interact and converse with strangers with ease.

Disinhibited Attachment Disorder is another name for disinhibited social engagement disorder. We often worry about children being in contact with strangers, but what happens when they experience no inhibition or fear meeting them?

Children with Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder have special needs for attention and care. (Image via Freepik/ Freepik)
Children with Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder have special needs for attention and care. (Image via Freepik/ Freepik)

What is Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder?

Children have trouble connecting or attaching to others. (Image via Freepik/ Freepik)
Children have trouble connecting or attaching to others. (Image via Freepik/ Freepik)

Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder is an attachment disorder characterized by a lack of inhibition around strangers and trouble creating emotional bonds with people. Young children who have endured abuse, neglect, trauma, or abandonment are more likely to develop the syndrome.

Most kids are instinctively wary of strangers who are grownups. Fear of strange individuals is generally constructive and good. Yet, this dread does not exist in kids with disinhibited social engagement disorder. Children with DSED are not frightened of strangers.

They feel so at ease around strangers that they wouldn't hesitate to enter a stranger's automobile or accept an invitation to their house. If the illness is not treated, this unrestrained friendliness could pose a major safety risk. The following are examples of signs of disinhibited social engagement disorder in children listed by the DSM-5:

  • No apprehension of adult strangers; no reluctance to approach people you have never met before
  • Very nice or chatty behaviour toward strangers
  • Adults being hugged or cuddled by strangers
  • Even while leaving with a stranger, there is no hesitation about strangers
  • Does not ask permission to approach strangers from parents or key caregivers
  • Although the illness is not observed to last into adulthood, symptoms may persist throughout adolescence

Tips for dealing with a child who has DSED

How can we take care of our children? (Image via Freepik/ Freepik)
How can we take care of our children? (Image via Freepik/ Freepik)

The most crucial thing you can do for your child if they have been diagnosed with DSED is to give them dependable, stable care.

Parents should pay attention to how well they engage with their children. Make sure your youngster feels protected and loved. It is important for healthy attachments to form between children and their caregivers or other people. You may find the following advice useful:

  • Set reasonable expectations, so that your child knows what to anticipate from you
  • Keep your patience because change takes time
  • Establish routines
  • Get assistance from other parents, relatives, counsellors, or support organizations.
  • Until treatment is complete, you should probably keep an eye on how your child interacts with new people and strangers

Youngsters must develop a healthy phobia of strangers and potentially dangerous individuals. For parents and other caregivers, raising a kid with a disinhibited social engagement disorder can be both perplexing and worrisome.

A child with this disorder needs continual supervision from their caregivers to make sure they don't put them in any dangerous situations. To keep the child from connecting with strangers, they might need to step in frequently.


What Causes Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder?

Where do these attachment issues stem from? (Image via Freepik/ Freepik)
Where do these attachment issues stem from? (Image via Freepik/ Freepik)

Attachment problems can develop in the presence of unfavorable early caregiving conditions. DSEDs are more likely to occur in children between the ages of 6 months and 2 years if they have experienced trauma, significant continuous emotional and social neglect, or have been institutionalized.

Not all adopted or fostered children experience attachment issues, despite the fact that the majority of studies on uninhibited social engagement have been conducted on these populations of children. It is believed that the indiscriminate friendliness displayed by these kids is unrelated to their attachment—or lack thereof—to primary caregivers like adoptive or foster parents.


How is Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder Treated?

Children need more love and attention than any age group in general. (Image via freepik/ Freepik)
Children need more love and attention than any age group in general. (Image via freepik/ Freepik)

The child's entire family is typically treated for DSED. Both solitary and group talk therapy sessions are possible. Play therapy and art therapy are two types of psychotherapeutic interventions that aim to relax the child.

Tools will be provided to adults who look after their children to assist them in enhancing their daily interactions and making the child feel loved and safe. Healthy attachments can only be developed if the caregiver learns how to make the youngster feel safe.

Depending on the child's age and circumstances, improvements may come slowly or swiftly. Remember that there is no quick fix, even if progress seems to be happening quickly.


Child caretakers who display signs of disinhibited social engagement disorder should consult a specialist for assistance and therapy. DSED is a serious illness, but with therapy, recovery is possible. This ailment won't go any better on its own. The child must get long-term, favorable treatment, a supportive relationship, and a stable, secure environment.

The best treatment for Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder is counseling, even though it can take some time. Make sure to offer your child all the love, attention, and emotional support they require if you are a caretaker.


Janvi Kapur is a counselor with a Master's degree in applied psychology with a specialization in clinical psychology.


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