Nail biting or nail biting disorder, also known as onychophagia, is a common habit that can develop in both children and adults. It involves biting and chewing on the nails, cuticles, or surrounding skin of the fingers and/or toes. Biting your nails can be a form of stress relief or a subconscious habit, but it can also be a sign of anxiety, boredom, or perfectionism.
Nail-biting can have negative effects on both physical and mental health. It can damage the nails and surrounding skin, leading to infections, inflammation, and even permanent changes in nail shape. It can also lead to dental problems if the habit causes teeth to shift or wear down. Additionally, biting your nails can cause social stigma and embarrassment, leading to negative self-esteem and anxiety.
Why does nail biting start?
Biting nails, like many habits, can develop for a variety of reasons, including:
Stress and anxiety
Biting your nails can be a way to relieve tension or anxiety, as repetitive motions can create a sense of comfort and distraction.
Boredom or inactivity
If you have idle hands, you may be more likely to engage in biting your nails as a way to pass the time.
Perfectionism or nervousness
If you have a tendency towards perfectionism or are nervous in social situations, nail biting may be a way to cope with those feelings.
Genetics
Some studies have suggested that biting nails may have a genetic component, as it tends to run in families.
Learned behavior
If you grew up in an environment where biting nails was common or saw others engage in the habit, you may be more likely to develop it yourself.
How to reduce nail biting?
Reducing biting your nails can be challenging, but there are several strategies that may be helpful:
Keep your nails trimmed and filed
Shorter nails are less tempting to bite, and keeping them smooth and neat can make the habit less satisfying.
Use bitter-tasting nail polish
Applying bitter-tasting nail polish to your nails can create a negative association with biting and help break the habit.
Wear gloves or bandages
Covering your nails with gloves or bandages can help reduce the physical sensation of biting and make it more difficult to engage in the habit.
Find alternative stress-relief techniques
Biting your nails is often a response to stress or anxiety, so finding healthier ways to manage those feelings can be helpful. Exercise, meditation, deep breathing, or talking to a trusted friend or therapist are all good options.
Practice mindfulness
Paying attention to the sensations and thoughts that arise when you feel the urge to bite your nails can help you recognize patterns and triggers, making it easier to interrupt the habit.
Use positive reinforcement
Reward yourself for going a certain amount of time without biting your nails, such as with a small treat or a fun activity.
Understanding why you engage in biting your nails can be an important step in breaking the habit. Identifying triggers and finding alternative ways to cope with stress or boredom can help reduce the urge to bite your nails. If you find that nail biting is interfering with your daily life or causing you distress, it may be helpful to seek the advice of a mental health professional.