Victoria Monét and John Gaines have officially parted ways after ten months of privately navigating their breakup. The Grammy-winning singer-songwriter and her partner, John Gaines, made a joint statement on September 23, 2024, revealing their decision to end their romantic relationship. The couple shares a three-year-old daughter, Hazel.
Monét and Gaines had initially kept the separation private but decided to go public after facing growing questions and rumors regarding their relationship.
The pair emphasized that their split was amicable and “no infidelity, toxic behavior, nor drama” contributed to the breakup.
Victoria Monét and Gaines emphasize respect and co-parenting despite split
Monét and Gaines clarified that they still deeply respect each other and that their focus remains on co-parenting their daughter, Hazel. The couple explained that they didn't want to make a formal statement but were prompted by false accusations and rumors circulating about their relationship.
"There was no infidelity, toxic behavior nor drama. We both just have some fundamental growing to do that would be best done apart so we can remain the best versions of ourselves for our daughter." - Joint statement.
They thanked their supporters and loved ones, urged people to respect their privacy, and said:
"Please allow us the peace and space to maintain a safe and happy environment to continue to co- parent to the best of our ability for Hazel! We plan to remain a family regardless of our public facing title..."
Victoria Monét and John Gaines’ relationship timeline
Victoria Monét and John Gaines maintained a low profile for the most part.There is little information about when and how they became a couple.
Gaines is a fitness influencer and personal trainer. The two appeared in the Monét's music video for her hit song Moment in 2020.
Hazel made her public debut in February 2024 when she accompanied her parents to the Grammy Awards, where Monét won three Grammys.
Notably, Hazel became the youngest Grammy nominee since she was featured on her mother Victoria Monét's song Hollywood. The song was nominated for Best Traditional R&B Performance at the 66th Annual Grammy Awards.
Victoria Monet has often emphasized the importance of her daughter and family in her life. In a September 2021 interview with Essence, Monét spoke fondly of Gaines’ transformation since becoming a father and said:
"Hazel has really got him wrapped around her finger, and I’ve seen him change in ways that I know he didn’t expect. She’s growing us up."
As Victoria Monét and Gaines step into this new chapter of co-parenting, Hazel remains their shared focus.