"It's either going to have to be Kim or Cassie": Former celebrity bodyguard claims Diddy asked him for advice on who to marry

Diddy’s former celebrity bodyguard, Roger Bonds, recently claimed that the rapper once asked him for advice on whom to marry- Kim or Cassie. He talked about the same while appearing for an interview with Cam Capone News’ YouTube channel on October 30. Talking about his discussion with the rapper, he said,

“He said, it's either gonna have to be Kim or Cassie. What you think I should do, yo? And I was like, I don't know. I said, I think you should go with Kim.”

Further justifying his answer to the rapper, he said,

“The only reason I said that was because she had the kids… I said, oh, man, she got four kids, man. But I said, at the end of the day, you gotta go with who makes you happy.”

Bonds was talking about the rapper's relationship with American model and actress Kim Porter with whom he shared four children, Quincy, Christian, Jessie, and D'Lila. While the other three were their biological kids, Quincy’s biological father was Al B. However, when Kim started a relationship with the music mogul, the rapper adopted Quincy.

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Diddy’s ex bodyguard opened up about the rapper’s relationship with Cassie

The rapper's bodyguard adviced him to marry Kim (Image via Lester Cohen/Getty Images)

Roger Bonds, Diddy’s former bodyguard, spoke up on Cam Capone's podcast about reported instances involving the rapper and Cassie, and describing violent moments and their fallout. Talking about the aftermath of his conversation with the Bad Boy mogul and about whom he should marry, he said,

“And his dumb ass pocket dialed Cassie. And I remember after that conversation, Cassie saw me, like, a week later, and she said, Bonds, you know I heard you, right? I said, you heard what? I heard that conversation that you and Puff had.”

He further continued and said,

“I believe at one point Cassie wants to marry Puff, but Puff doesn't want to marry Cassie.”

Additionally, Bonds also revealed that he saw Combs and Cassie get into physical fights while the hip-hop artist employed him. The interview further provided insight into the alleged behind-the-scenes violent situations. In response to a question about the first time he witnessed Diddy and Cassie engaging in a physical fight, Bonds recounted a heated incident at a party in 2009 where Cassie was talking to another man.

Bonds claimed that Combs was upset when he witnessed Cassie speaking to him and got into a physical altercation with her. Bonds then reportedly had to intervene to break up the altercation,

“He just lost it… grabbed her and punched her, threw her on the floor.”

People in the vicinity of the party witnessed the incident, which he described as chaotic. Bonds then dragged Diddy away despite the danger. He further revealed that tensions persisted on the trip back to their hotel even after he was able to defuse the situation at the party.

During the car ride, Cassie allegedly punched Diddy in the face in retaliation, and the rapper allegedly tried to strike her back. Bonds recalled trying to roll up the car windows while driving to maintain control as people in other cars recognized Diddy.

He further claimed that the singer reportedly told him that Cassie was allegedly being aggressive towards him. Talking about the same, he said,

“He would point out to me when she was being aggressive, you know what I'm saying? Just to show me that it wasn't always him. So it's been times where he might be like, yo, bonds… You see her, you see it, right? And I'll be like, all right..”

He further talked about the times he allegedly caught Cassie being aggressive. While talking about the same, he said, that when he and the rapper went for a walk, they saw Cassie run behind them. Then when she caught up to them, she kicked him in the nuts.

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Meanwhile, Cassie hasn't said anything about the rapper’s arrest and the lawsuit he has been facing as of yet.