In episode 8 of 1000-Lb Best Friends Season 3, titled "The Good, The Bad and the Hungry," viewers watch as Vanessa and Meghan confront the fallout from their intense argument during the cabin trip. The episode, aired on December 17, 2024, reveals the emotional journey both friends are navigating as they work through their differences.
They support each other while continuing their efforts to lose weight and improve their lives. The fight in the cabin left a significant impact, and this episode marks a turning point as the two women try to mend their fractured friendship.
1000-Lb Best Friends Season 3, Episode 8: Vanessa and Meghan resolve their conflict
The tension between Vanessa and Meghan
The 1000-lb Best Friends episode begins by revisiting the argument during their cabin trip. The disagreement sparked when Vanessa commented on Meghan’s dietary choices, particularly regarding eating fried chicken. Vanessa expressed frustration over Meghan’s reluctance to follow the dietary advice she had been advocating.
The argument escalated as both friends aired their frustrations, with underlying issues of competition and jealousy becoming more apparent. Vanessa stated,
“I feel like this fight has nothing to do with chicken or ribs, that it's more that little underlying jealousy that Megan has about me and my success.”
She felt that Meghan was undermining her weight loss achievements. Meghan responded in a 1000-lb Best Friends confessional,
“I feel like Vanessa has constantly felt like she is the more educated one. When it comes to the surgery and nutrition, and that pisses me off.”
As the argument continued, both women expressed their hurt. Meghan said in a 1000-lb Best Friends confessional,
“I'm starting to realize I don't need any validation from anybody because I know I'm successful and I don't have to prove to Vanessa.”
As the argument escalated, both women said things that hurt each other. Vanessa’s frustration with Meghan not taking her advice seriously led to accusations that Meghan wasn't as dedicated to her weight loss goals. On the other hand, Meghan expressed anger over feeling like Vanessa was trying to undermine her efforts.
A moment of reflection and apology
After the argument, both women took time to reflect on the situation. Meghan acknowledged that deeper feelings were involved in their conflict, particularly concerning Vanessa’s apparent focus on her success. Meghan explained in a 1000-lb Best Friends confessional,
“I have literally been on straight and narrow. Like, maybe I don’t shout it to the rooftops. This is what I’m eating. This is what I’m doing. So what? That doesn’t mean I’m not doing the work.”
She clarified that she had been committed to weight loss, even though it may not have been obvious to Vanessa. Vanessa, in her turn, recognized her behavior and how it had affected Meghan. She admitted,
“We have worked through so much. These past few days, me and you have crossed lines that we haven’t crossed in over a year because we were scared to talk to one another.”
This statement showed her realization that communication had broken down between them. When Meghan reached out to Vanessa, she did so intending to clear the air. Meghan expressed,
“I did it for a reason, because when we’re on the trip, we had that big fight, and we really never got to, like, chat it out.”
This showed her desire to address their issues and move forward. Vanessa, acknowledging her role in the argument, said in a 1000-lb Best Friends confessional,
“Megan gets all upset with me. Any time I act like I know something, she always feels like I’m saying I know better than her. I know better than her. It makes it a competition.”
Rekindling their friendship
In their conversation, both women discussed how they had been affected by their fight and how it had influenced their friendship. Vanessa revealed her feelings of needing validation from Meghan, stating,
“You never looked at me and said, Vanessa, oh my God, you look so f***ing good. I’m so proud of you.”
This highlighted her desire for recognition from her friend. Meghan responded, expressing her belief that her support had been understood but acknowledging that she had not been explicit about it.
“You just didn't hear it. And I've told you so many times you just didn't hear it.” she said.
The conversation led to a moment of emotional openness between the two. Meghan said,
“I am not by any means jealous of you. I’m so beyond happy and proud of you. I have always been your cheerleader.”
This statement was a direct reassurance to Vanessa, emphasizing her support. Vanessa visibly moved, responded in a 1000-lb Best Friends confessional,
“When Meghan finally validates my weight loss, I didn’t realize how emotional that was going to get me. That’s all I’ve wanted out of her.”
At the conclusion of their discussion, both women expressed a renewed commitment to their friendship and support for one another. Meghan said,
“I will always be happy for you. And I will always cheer you on. Because when I see you succeed, I’m succeeding.”
The conversation ended with both women reaffirming their commitment to supporting each other. Vanessa expressed gratitude for Meghan’s honesty, and Meghan reassured Vanessa that they were on this journey together.
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