"Big deal" — 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star Vanja reflects on her relationship with Josko during Tell All part 3

Part 3 of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 7 Tell All aired on January 26, 2025, and brought several key moments to discussion. Vanja opened up about her relationship with Josko, sharing new details about their time together.

During the conversation, Vanja reflected on their relationship, saying:

“It’s just being intimate with somebody, for me, is a big deal.”

The segment also addressed a sensitive issue, with Vanja revealing that Josko had recorded a private moment without her consent. She described her reaction upon finding the video and explained that she had made him delete it.

Josko admitted his mistake and apologized for it.

90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days Tell All part three also featured other moments, including Veah Netherton’s explanation for bringing her ex, Rory, on her trip to meet Sunny Mahdi and Loren Allen and Faith Gatoc discussing their ongoing relationship issues.

These discussions provided updates on where the cast members stood after the season.

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Vanja and Josko address their relationship challenges in 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days

Vanja and Josko’s time on the Tell All part 3 of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days highlighted their relationship struggles and reason for separation. Josko shared his perspective on the breakup, saying,

“Not a single time that she would ask me about how my kid was doing. And that’s not someone I would like to spend a life with, you know.”

The discussion became serious when Vanja revealed that Josko had recorded an intimate moment without her consent.

She explained that she had not initially planned to bring it up, but Josko had taken a video of them being intimate without her knowledge, which she made him delete. Josko admitted his mistake, saying:

“We talked about it before, and it was something that, in my head, I kind of developed a story about the consent. But it wasn’t there, and once she saw it, she was completely devastated.”

Vanja also shared that she gave their relationship another chance by traveling to Croatia, where they had a brief reconciliation. She asked Josko if he wanted to continue their relationship, but he declined.

Josko explained his decision, saying that he had a physical attraction, but he didn’t have "strong feelings for her."

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Other key moments from Tell All Part 3

In this episode of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, Veah Netherton addressed questions about bringing her ex-boyfriend Rory to South Africa to meet Sunny Mahdi. Veah explained:

“It just worked out. Nobody else could really go with me at the time,” adding that she had no "regrets" about the decision.

Rory joined via video call and admitted to poking fun at Sunny on social media, saying:

“I never left snide comments on his social media. I did ‘ha-ha’ his picture though. It was just poking the bear essentially,” Sunny, said that it was "unnecessary."

Loren Allen and Faith Gatoc’s relationship struggles also took center stage. Loren’s ex, Esther, appeared via video chat, sparking a discussion about allegations of Loren flirting with a drag queen.

Loren denied the accusations, saying, he explained that a woman had approached him, but he had turned her down, and while he spoke to a drag queen, he insisted it was not "flirting."

Faith, however, stated that she did not see a future with Loren and confirmed that their relationship was over.

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The next Tell All episode of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days is scheduled to air on February 2, 2025.