“Control freak”- 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way fans criticize Sarper for his behavior towards Shekinah

90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6, which premiered last month, gained a lot of traction because of the intense storylines of the couples who were documented living abroad with their significant other.

Episode 12 of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6 was released on September 16 and saw Sarper and Shekinah going to therapy. While there, they talked about the issues in their relationship. .

Shekinah detailed that they had a fight regarding a vanity Sarper wanted to buy and Shekinah didn't. Sarper admitted to being a control freak and got angry when Shkinah refused to obey his opinions about the vanity.

Shekinah revealed that Sarper was fuming to the point where he yelled at her, took her phone away, and even pulled out some of her hair.

Fans of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way have come to X to talk about this behavior of Sarper. They are criticizing him for being abusive and treating Shekinah the way that he did.

"Sarper is more than a control freak," said one fan.

"'He grabbed the phone out of my hand & pulled some of my hair out'. Sarper: 'Not intentionally...' This abuser still has never said he was sorry for abusing her. Shekinah, get out before you lose your life," wrote another fan.

"So what’s Sarper is saying he wants Skeania to be submissive," commented a third fan.

"No therapy can fix an adult grown man. Sheikinah please leave this abuser he’s not a good man. Sarper isn’t changing," another said.

Fans of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way also criticized what Sarper admitted to when he said he didn't like it when Shekinah didn't listen to him.

"Not Sarper admitting that he doesn’t like when Shekinah has her own thoughts/opinions," one fan wrote.

"Sarper assaulted Shekinah & he is somehow sitting in the therapist office telling her that he is the victim somehow. Can someone please get this loser off my tv," wrote another.

"Sarper is the type of dude who will do anything he wants & hurts anyone in his path & will only do anything to fix it when she threatens to leave him. He isn't sorry," an X user said.

"Shekinah doesn't realize she is gambling with her life. Sarper has no self-control. If he took your phone and ripped your weave out then next time it's gonna be worse. It never gets better," wrote another one.

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The therapy session Sarper and Shekinah went to in episode 12 of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6

Sarper took Shekinah to the therapy session to resolve their ongoing issues which made Shekinah think that he was taking the step because he genuinely wanted to be with her.

On 90 Day Fiancé, Sarper started by sharing that he was a control freak and overreacted when things didn't go his way.

When the therapist asked him the reason behind his anger that came out when she refused to buy the vanity, Sarper said that his cool was lost when he saw Shekinah not wanting to listen to him.

He said that he knew she was a strong woman outside, but when she rebelled against him, it felt as if she didn't love him anymore.

Shekinah said that it wasn't good that he had a problem with her thoughts and opinions. She also added that instead of comforting her, Sarper got mad at her when she was vulnerable to him, which was something she wanted to resolve.

The therapist told Sarper that he needed to validate Shekinah's feelings if he wished to make her happy, while he defended himself by saying he did so because he was scared of losing her.

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New episodes of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6 are released every Monday, at 8 pm, on TLC.