“Feels like you’re hiding me” — The Real Housewives of Potomac star TJ opens up to Stacey about his concerns

The Real Housewives of Potomac season 9 highlights the personal life events of cast members Gizelle Bryant, Ashley Darby, Karen Huger, Dr. Wendy Osefo, and Mia Thornton. Stacey Rusch, Keiarna Stewart, Jacqueline Blake, and Jassi Rideaux. The new housewife this season, Stacey Rusch's love life, was one of the major focuses.

As viewers already know, Stacey had introduced her new boyfriend, TJ, to her friends after she separated from her husband. Throughout the series so far, Stacey has been seen navigating her divorce and parenthood. In the newly released episode 15, Stacey's boyfriend TJ asked her if he could visit her house now that her estranged husband has moved out.

When The Real Housewives of Potomac shared that it wasn't the right time yet, TJ opened up about his feelings, stating it felt like she was "hiding" him. He continued:

"It feels like you're hiding me. I want you to tell people that we are dating, and I want you to tell your husband that we are dating."

The Real Housewives of Potomac season 9 episode 15, titled Old Rumours, Die Hard, was released exclusively on Bravo TV on January 19, 2025. The episode synopsis reads as follows:

"The ladies return from their Panama trip; Ashley prepares for her Drag King event; Stacey works to finalize her divorce while fielding requests from T.J. Gordon."

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What happened between TJ and Stacey on The Real Housewives of Potomac season 9 episode 15?

On The Real Housewives of Potomac season 9 episode 15, Stacey shared that her soon-to-be ex-husband was about to move out of the house. Upon hearing this, TJ asked Stacey if this meant he could visit her. Stacey explained that it was "too soon" for TJ to come to her house as her daughter resided there. She said:

"I think it's too soon for you to come to the house with Bella there."

During her confession interview, The Real Housewives of Potomac star admitted to her love for TJ. But she elaborated on the main reason behind her not feeling "right" to invite him over. Stacey also reflected on the divorce process during which she and her soon-to-be ex-husband were "very respectful." She continued:

Well, I love TJ but it just doesn't feel right to have TJ at my house yet. It's where my daughter sleeps, it's my sanctuary. My husband and I have been very cordial and very respectful during this entire divorce and I don't want to mess that up."

Later in the episode, Stacey told the cameras that it was difficult for her to make TJ understand her situation as he had not been married before. She stated that she was grieving her past self, and going through a divorce after being in a long-term relationship was hurtful.

The Real Housewives of Potomac cast member asked TJ if he would feel better about their connection once she had informed her husband about their relationship. TJ responded by saying it would make her feel better about their bond.

The upcoming episode will showcase more of Stacey's love life amidst her divorce in process. Stream new episodes of The Real Housewives of Potomac season 9 on Sundays at 8/7c and the next day on Peacock TV.