The Later Daters, a Netflix dating series, revolves around six single baby boomers stepping into the dating world again. During this process, the dating coach expert Logan Urgy helps them by giving advice, managing their expectations, and changing their perspective about getting into a relationship in this new phase of their lives.
One of the cast members, Pam, went on a blind date with Robert in episode 2. At first, their date was going well until Robert felt Pam wasn't asking him questions. During his confessional interview, he opened up, implying there was no room for him to share more about himself as Pam wasn't listening or attempting to get to know him. Robert said:
"If you noticed I asked her a lot of questions. I wanted to learn a lot about her. The woman hardly ever asked me a question."
Later in the episode, Pam shared she has a loud personality and started to "babble" due to her nervousness. Logan gave her a piece of important advice and prepared her for another date. The Laters Daters episode 2, titled You Are on a Roll, was released exclusively on Netflix on November 29, 2024. The episode synopsis read:
"Pam's colorful past keeps her from looking to the future. Dwayna's jaw drops when Anise unpacks her date. Logan tells Suzanne to toss out her playbook."
Robert shares how his date went with Pam on The Later Daters episode 2
In The Later Daters episode 2, Robert opened up about his date during his confessional interview. He implied that they both had different personalities that were "opposite." Robert said:
"She is so a 180 degrees opposite of who I am. It would not end well."
Robert had communicated with Pam that she wasn't asking him questions and trying to get to know him. In a conversation with dating expert Logan Urgy, Pam admitted that she was talking about herself and had a "big personality." She shared that she "tends to babble" out of nervousness and was listening to Robert. The Later Daters cast member said:
"I'm not comfortable with myself thinking that someone going, 'Ooh I want to see her again.' I am not everybody's cup of tea, and I'm hyper and you know, he kept saying that I didn't ask questions and I wasn't listening, but that's nervousness. I tend to babble."
Urgy advised The Later Daters star Pam not to focus too much on "being interesting" but rather "being interested," as everyone needs a room to showcase their personality. Urgy told Pam that when she finds herself talking a lot, she could pause to take a sip of water so that the person she is conversing with can fill the silence. Urgy said:
"Do you know this idea, it's better to be interested than interesting. If you like him and would want to see him again, you're gonna increase your chances he'll ant to see you again, by asking questions because that's something people are looking for."
Episode 3 detailed Pam's date with a new love prospect. Newly released episodes of The Later Daters season 1 are available exclusively on Netflix. Viewers can follow Logan Urgy on her official Instagram account.