"It's just disrespectful"—The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On star Sandy discusses running into Nick with J.R.

The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On season 3 premiered on December 4, 2024, with the release of the first five episodes. The series paired individuals with new partners in trial marriages to explore whether their original relationships were worth saving or if it was time to move on.

Episode 4, titled Ghosted, marked the start of these trial marriages. While the process encouraged self-discovery and connection, unexpected departures created tension among the group. One standout moment from the episode was Sandy’s conversation with her trial partner, J.R., about running into her original partner, Nick.

"It's just disrespectful. He's just really emotional right now, which I get, you know? I think we all are," Sandy said.

Sandy opened up about how Nick’s reaction to her pairing with J.R. felt dismissive. Meanwhile, other participants faced their own challenges as two contestants, Vanessa and Micah, decided to exit the show. They left their partners behind, reshaping the group dynamic.

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Sandy and J.R. discuss Nick’s reaction in The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On

During their first few days as a trial couple, Sandy and J.R. settled into their shared apartment. Their relationship took a serious turn when Sandy revealed an awkward encounter with Nick at Starbucks. Nick, her original partner, expressed frustration about Sandy choosing J.R. for the trial phase.

"He thinks we are here to f**k around. Like we're literally not" Sandy told J.R.

She added that Nick misunderstood her reasons for participating in the experiment of The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On. Sandy further shared that Nick accused her of being on the show to "just mess around," which hurt her.

J.R. listened to Sandy and encouraged her to focus on their relationship. He noted that trial marriages were designed to help participants grow and clarify their feelings.

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Departures impact trial marriages in The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On

As the trial phase continued, the group dynamic shifted dramatically when Vanessa and Micah abruptly left the experiment of The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On. Vanessa was originally paired with Nick, while Micah was coupled with Mariah. However, they packed up their belongings, and exited the show without informing their trial partners.

Surveillance footage revealed that Vanessa, Micah, Dave, and Chanel had met earlier in the day to discuss their plans to leave. The sudden departures left Nick and Mariah navigating the experience alone. Mariah, who had returned to her apartment to find Micah gone, was confused and hurt by his decision.

Similarly, Nick expressed disappointment over Vanessa’s exit, noting that they had begun building a connection. Sandy and Caleb voiced their concerns, with Caleb sharing that he was worried about Mariah handling the situation alone. Sandy was also frustrated at Vanessa’s actions, as her decision affected the whole group.

Despite the disruptions, the remaining participants worked to strengthen their trial marriages. Zaina and Scotty bonded during a walk, with Zaina acknowledging doubts about their compatibility but appreciating their smooth transition to living together.

Meanwhile, Caleb and Aria deepened their connection as she shared her admiration for Caleb’s calm nature. The episode ended with participants reflecting on their experiences and preparing for the challenges ahead.

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Watch the new episodes of The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On season 3, which are currently streaming on Netflix.