90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days is a popular reality TV series that follows couples who have formed online relationships and are meeting in person for the first time. This extended prequel to the original 90 Day Fiancé series showcases the challenges of dating across borders, navigating cultural differences, and the emotional rollercoasters that come with long-distance relationships.
Faith and Loren are one of the couples in 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, whose journey has piqued the interest of viewers for its authenticity and the hurdles they face. Recently, Loren revealed to Faith that he is homeless and financially unstable, news that could shake any relationship to its core.
Despite her doubts and fear about this revelation from Loren, Faith’s response in the episode of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days was unexpectedly supportive, saying,
“But I know that I know Loren is so hardworking person. I just want to find who will be the person to accept me for who I am as a transgender man. Yeah. That's why I don't mind to have not enough money. It's okay. Then I found you,”
Loren and Faith’s journey on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days
Loren Allen, hailing from Las Vegas, works as a drag assistant. His journey of self-discovery began at a young age when he realized he was attracted to trans women. Despite societal and familial pressures to lead a "straight lifestyle," Loren's desire to find a trans wife never waned.
This quest for true happiness led him to Faith, a 30-year-old who describes herself as a “ladyboy” and had never had a boyfriend before meeting Loren. The couple’s relationship blossomed quickly. They connected on two Filipino dating apps, and by the end of their first day of talking, they had already expressed their love for each other.
With Loren’s intention to make Faith his wife, despite his inclination toward an open relationship, he kept his non-monogamous desires a secret, fearing it would end their budding romance. This set the stage for the many revelations and challenges that were to come in 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days.
Faith’s dream of moving to the U.S.
Faith's anticipation of moving to the U.S. played a significant role in her relationship with Loren. Working as the officer in charge of the housekeeping department in a hotel in Manila, Faith found stability and the ability to support her family through her job. Her diverse skills extended to roles such as magician, makeup artist, and puppeteer.
Despite her stable job, Faith did not feel accepted in her home country, making Loren’s promise of a life in the U.S. an appealing prospect. Navigating her life in the Philippines, Faith viewed moving to America as a golden chance to start anew in a place brimming with opportunities.
She wholeheartedly expressed her willingness to seize this opportunity if Loren invited her, indicating her commitment to their relationship and her hope for a better future together in the U.S.
Loren's financial reality
During their relationship, Faith believed Loren had a stable life in America, supported by multiple side hustles. Loren's working demeanor and generosity led her to trust in his financial stability. However, the reality was starkly different. Loren only had $46 to his name when he flew to the Philippines, having spent all his savings on the trip and waiting for his next paycheck.
In his on-camera confession in 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, Loren disclosed his financial struggles, including his minimum-wage jobs at drag shows, retail stores, and a gift shop. He admitted to Faith that he was not just penniless but also homeless, planning to relocate to the Philippines and work remotely.
Reflecting on his unexpected journey and the depth of his feelings, Loren shared his thoughts,
"I was not expecting to stay here in the Philippines, but I really care for Lauren, and I know he cares for me, too. Because if there's no problem with finances, because love is all that matters.
This revelation was a lot for Faith to absorb, challenging the rosy picture she had painted about their future together. She stated,
"I'm nervous, But I'm relieved that he's finally being honest about his money. I just hope there are no more secrets."
Tune in every Sunday at 8 p.m. EDT on TLC to witness the heartwarming, dramatic, and unpredictable journeys of couples navigating cross-border relationships in 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days.