90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 7 episode 18 premiered on December 29, 2024, on TLC. Titled Before We Say Goodbye, the episode featured a conversation between Joe and Magda where the former wanted to come clean.
Joe told Magda that he had once dated Jill, his friend of 15 years. However, he highlighted that it wasn't that important and it happened a long time ago. He added that he didn't tell her about it because he was hoping that she and Jill could be friends, as he cared about both of them.
Regardless, Magda was furious at the fact that her partner hid such an important detail from her. She felt that he cared more about his friend than her and might still have feelings for her.
When Joe tried to express that he did care for Magda, she asked him to prove it to her by choosing between the two.
"Yeah? Show me. You have to choose me and her?" she asked Joe.
When Joe asked Magda if she would consider being friends with Jill, she responded with a plain no.
"Even you can't be friends with her. You can't even speak to her because you lied to me. I'm not friends with my exes, I'm not friends with people I f*cked before," she added.
"He lied to me, he hide again"— 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star Magda criticizes Joe
In 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 7 episode 18, Joe told Magda about his past with Jill. Magda was more hurt about the fact that Joe hid this from her.
She later shared in her confessional that she had already been through this before. Her last boyfriend, who was living in Germany, cheated on her multiple times when she moved in with him. Her friends even once saw her boyfriend with his ex in a club.
"My ex always hide things from me and now Joey is the same," the 90 Day Fiancé star added.
Joe emphasized once again that his relationship with Jill had ended a long time ago. He explained that they had been close friends for 15 years and their brief romantic involvement was a one-time thing, not something that continued over time.
Magda tried to explain to her 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days partner that she didn't care that he dated his friend; she was upset because he lied to her. She added that she doesn't trust him anymore and that she doesn't want to move to the USA and live with a person like him.
"I don't care if he had some past with Jill and if the didn't work out. I get it, it's not that point. He lied to me, he hide again. That's why I'm pisssed off. I don't want to change his life, his friend, but that's maybe wonder why he hide this. I don't know if he have some feelings to her or maybe she have some feelings," she added in her confessional.
She further noted that she sacrificed everything, quit her job, and opened up for him to have a family and be married. However, she now realized that Joe wasn't committed to her the same way she was, and she couldn't imagine being with him right now.
The 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star later told her partner that she had done her best to make their relationship work, but she had finally reached her limit.
"I'm definitely regretting that I should have told the truth about Jill sooner. I'm really hoping at this point [that] she knows how committed I am and I was hoping that she wouldn't react like so angry about it," Joe reacted in his confessional.
90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 7 airs every Sunday on TLC.