"A giant red flag" — 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fans react to Brian opening up about his accident to Ingrid

90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days released its latest episode on Sunday, September 22, 2024. It saw Brian and Ingrid go on a trip to meet the latter's friends and family. While they were on their way, Brian mustered the courage to share the details of his carjacking accident with Ingrid.

Fearing the details would upset Ingrid, Brian kept the story concealed from his partner of two years. In the latest episode, he finally realized it was time to come clean. He confessed his carjacking was not a random incident.

Brian revealed he used to work as a drug dealer for five years, and would take drugs before getting addicted to them. However, once he realized it was taking a toll on his health, he decided to leave it all behind and give his life a fresh start. He even wished to sever ties with his wife at that time.

However, his decisions didn't lead to the results he wanted as his now ex-wife orchestrated the carjacking, which resulted in Brian sustaining life-threatening injuries. 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fans took to X to criticize Brian for keeping the truth from Ingrid. Some even felt Ingrid's shock was justified, hoping she left him and settled with someone better.

A 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fan reacts (Image via X/@jenjihere)

"Brian is a giant red flag. I’m not a fan of anything that comes out of his mouth," a fan wrote.

"Brian reveals information in a way that makes it’s seem like he wasn’t withholding it. “Oh I never told you that?! Are you sure??” Boy you know you didn’t tell her any of this!" another fan commented.

"“I didn’t tell you I was a drug dealer and addict??” Stop brian you knew damn well you were hiding this from her," a netizen tweeted.

Many 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fans felt Brian kept too many secrets from Ingrid to have a genuine relationship with her. He not only kept his past a secret but also lied about his age to Ingrid.

"Brian lying about his age AND keeping secrets about what happened to him. If I was Ingrid I wouldn't feel comfortable either and you damn sure ain't meeting my parents," a user reacted.

"What was Brian telling Ingrid for these past 2 years??" one person commented.

"Damn ! I'll Admit I was Wrong, I thought Brian was a good guy in the beginning but now I see he's just a Lying scammer !" another fan wrote.

"Brian is turning into a big ole NO. His tone changes a lot when he talks to her too. Too many lies, deceit, and pushy," a user tweeted.

At the same time, some 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fans hoped Ingrid would leave Brian for someone better.

"Ingrid can do SO much better than Brian. He has every red flag in the book," one netizen commented.

"Brian is a pathological liar. Dump his a**, Ingrid," another person reacted.

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90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star Ingrid confronts Brian about hiding his past as a drug dealer

Ingrid was taken aback after Brian revealed his past profession. She confessed she got uncomfortable after discovering he was involved in the business of drugs. Ingrid stated she never used drugs or knew anyone who used it. Therefore, it was difficult for her to process the information, coming from her partner of two years.

"Why didn't you talk about the drugs before we arranged to meet?" Ingrid asked.

The 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star asked if he could guarantee he would not relapse after marrying her. She felt Brian stopped dealing drugs only because the accident turned him into a quadriplegic. Ingrid's reaction "disappointed" Brian, who hoped she could overlook the past since it was "ancient history."

"I'm hurt by it and offended because I know that I've been through a lot and there's no way in hell that I'm going back to that," Brain said.

The 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star added that he did not tell her about his past because he wanted to have that conversation in person. At the same time, he did not expect Ingrid to "react the way that she did." Meanwhile, Ingrid confessed before the cameras, that she was unhappy discovering so much in such a short span of time.

"My head's really messed up," Ingrid stated.

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90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days airs every Sunday at 8 pm ET, only on TLC.