"An epic fail" — 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way fans react to Josh and Lily's wedding payment drama

90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way released its latest episode on Monday, November 11, 2024. The segment featured Josh and Lily getting into a disagreement moments before their wedding when Josh struggled to pay for the event.

Despite trying different payment methods, he could not make a payment since his credit cards were inaccessible. With only an hour left before the guests arrived, Josh suggested Lily cancel the wedding. However, Lily wasn't on board with the idea. She was disappointed in Josh's eagerness to call off the event, stating that he disrespected her feelings and did not care about her reputation.

Lily was upset that Josh had not prepared the payment before arriving at the venue. After some deliberation, Lily decided to borrow money from her bank and pay some of their wedding expenses, while Josh and his brother, Jarod, reimbursed the rest in cash. Although the issue was resolved, Lily was frustrated that Josh could not fulfill her husband's duty.

90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way fans took to X to react to the payment drama. While many criticized Josh for being irresponsible, others called Lily out for having expectations from him that she knew he could not meet.

"Josh had no intention of paying for any of this wedding or he would’ve had it sorted sooner than an hour before the wedding. She’s right he was an epic fail," a fan wrote.

"Lily...I thought you were a business woman...YOU DON'T BORROW MONEY TO GET MARRIED!!!" another fan commented.

"Josh and Lilly all made up drama. Why didn't she just pay from jump since they knew there may be a problem with his payment method," a netizen tweeted.

Many 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way fans criticized Josh for coming unprepared to the wedding.

"Lily said this was a test and as expected Josh failed! I can’t with him! He has the personality of a potato … he is not bringing a thing to this marriage! Poor Lily!" a user reacted.

"Josh is so full of sh*t! ... He has no money! I think he's a scammer," a person commented.

"Josh definitely had no intention of paying for the wedding with Lily!" another fan wrote.

Meanwhile, other 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way fans questioned Lily's decision to put all the responsibility on Josh, knowing that his payment methods might not work.

"I’m sick of Lilly. she knew Josh did not have money on demand !! If she wanted him to pay she should have said that upfront that way they could have made a way for him to get the money the right way," one user posted.

"Lily:"he failed in the end it was a test” Yet she’s still going to marry him so what was the point in testing him? She knew he was a bum," a person reacted.

One netizen claimed that Josh and Lily should not have gone through with the wedding if they were unclear about the preparations.

"Josh clearly looking nervous, he knows he got no $$ for this wedding. Lily should be mortified, and ashamed. josh and Lilly needed to NEVER arrange this wedding. Is I would feelbad your getting married to such a loser . . Jarod saved the day," another user commented.

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90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way: Lily feels like a "hideous" bride

An hour before the guests arrived, Josh and Lily had yet to clear the payment for their wedding. Lily gave the responsibility to Josh, who struggled to fulfill it because his credit cards would not go through. After one method failed, Josh tried another, but in vain. When the 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way star suggested a bank transfer, Lily disagreed, saying they did not have time for that.

While speaking to the cameras, Josh said that he knew why Lily was upset. However, he saw no justification in stressing out about a situation beyond their control. Hence, he suggested Lily contact her guests and tell them the wedding was canceled, but Josh's suggestion did not sit well with Lily.

"Josh shows no consideration for my feelings and fails to put himself in my shoes. Nearly all the guests invited to the wedding are my friends, family, and clients. If he invited his family and friends, and I suggested the same, how would he react?" Lily said.

The 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way star struggled to understand why Josh acted that way and confronted him about his financial situation and preparedness. Hearing that, Josh defended himself, recalling when he warned Lily that the payment methods might not work.

Finally, Josh and Jarod decided to pay 1200 Yuan in cash, while Lily agreed to loan the other 8200 Yuan from her online bank. Although the issue was resolved, Lily was disappointed in Josh. 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way star confessed that she was testing him and he failed to "fulfill the husband's duty."

Ultimately, Lily was not in the mood to enjoy her wedding. She felt awkward and embarrassed by what had happened.

"I was looking forward to being a beautiful bride on my wedding day. But now I feel like I will be the most hideous bride," she said.

Nonetheless, the 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way couple went through with their wedding and enjoyed quality time together.

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90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way releases new episodes every Monday at 8 pm ET exclusively on TLC.