"Biggest ick"— The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On fans divided by J.R. not letting Nick speak to Sandy  

Netflix's popular reality series, The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On, returned to screens with season 3 on Wednesday, December 4, 2024. The segment saw six new couples at crossroads about their future together, arrive on the show. During the first 5 episodes, the participants broke up with their original partners and coupled up with another person from the show.

This included Sandy and J.R. who had arrived on the show with their partners, Nick and Zaina. Nick had paired up with Vanessa but the female cast member left the experiment midway, leaving Nick alone. The male cast member spent time alone while his girlfriend formed a connection with J.R. He was unhappy when he found out that J.R. had met Sandy's parents and had a breakdown.

In an emotional state, he reached the new couple's shared apartment but J.R. refused to let him meet Sandy. Fans of the reality show commented on the exchange online and were divided in their opinion. While some criticized Nick for going to the couple's house, others were upset about J.R.'s reaction. One person wrote on X:

"JR saying that Nick can't just come up and speak to his wife gave me the biggest ick... She's not your wife!"

"JR and Sandy handled that situation terribly. Yes, Nick was crashing out but he didn’t deserve that. And to add that “I do know your girl” comment was low," a fan commented.

"Sandy and JR are disrespectful af. JR opening the door in Nick’s face telling him to get tf out and “I know your girl” and Sandy just allowing it???? Oh absolutely tf not," a tweet read.

Fans of The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On season 3 fans criticized Nick for going to J.R. and Sandy's apartment:

"I feel so bad for Nick but he didn’t have to show up at Sandy and JR’s apartment like that," a person wrote.

"At this point I don't care if the masculinity is going be toxic or not but Nick needs an Andrew Tet and @jordanbpeterson in his life right now...WTF... He needs to be schooled on self respect and self love!!!" a fan commented.

"I’m watching #TheUltimatums3 & Nick is giving me the ICKKKKK!!!! He’s 10 yrs older than Sandy & wants to force her into a domestic life?? This is why men who date younger creepy," a tweet read.

Fans of The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On season 3 further said:

"Even tho Nick has been super unhinged, his fears weren’t unwarranted. Like I never thought it was “he doesn’t like JR bc he’s black”. I thought it was that he knew her and knew what type time she was on when she saw JR," a person wrote.

"The Producers know they were for wrong for having Nick go over there while he's in that headspace after he's been harassing her through the experiment," a fan commented.

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Nick shows up at J.R. and Sandy's apartment in the middle of the night in The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On season 3 episode 5

In The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On season 3 episode 5, titled, Just Here For a Hall Pass? Nick made his way to Sandy and J.R.'s apartment at 11:56 pm. The male cast member opened the door and asked Nick what was up. Nick told him that he needed to see Sandy but J.R. refused.

The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On season 3 cast member asked Nick to "get the f*ck" out and slammed the door on his face. Nick knocked on the door again, insistent about seeing Sandy. J.R. told him that she didn't want to talk to him.

"Are you kidding me?" Nick responded.

Sandy went to the door and told Nick they were not going to do this and Nick told her he didn't care. She told him that he needed to leave and said he was being unfair.

The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On season 3 cast member told Nick it was not okay while J.R. asked why he showed up. Nick said he didn't know and said that J.R. didn't know him and asked him to stop. He further said that J.R. didn't know his "girl."

"I know you girl," J.R. responded.

The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On season 3 male participant told J.R. he was not "funny" and the latter said that he knew he wasn't funny. He asked Nick to leave and said he was "embarrassing" himself.

Fans of the Netflix reality show reacted to the exchange online and were divided in their opinion. While some criticized Nick for going to the couple's apartment, others criticized J.R. and Sandy's behavior towards him.

Fans can watch episodes 1 to 5 of The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On season 3 on Netflix.