“Enough is enough”— 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fans react to Vanja and Josko’s post-breakup phone call

Season 7 of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days aired its 19th episode on January 5, titled Never Let Me Go. In this episode, Vanja and Josko had a phone call after their split.

When Josko returned to his home country Croatia from his visit to Vanja's home in Orlando, Florida, he ended the relationship because he didn't think she was accommodating enough to his child.

Vanja described her reaction to the sudden ending as "complete shock." In the previous episode of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, a seemingly heartbroken Vanja hugged her best friend and cried about yet another relationship ending abruptly.

In episode 19, she got on a video call with Josko again and told him she missed him. She also mentioned her prior plans to visit Croatia to be with him and his son, asking if he would still meet her if she showed up. After a brief silence, Josko said he wasn't sure yet and asked for a couple of days to think it over.

Fans of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days took to X to discuss the phone call between the two. One fan on X commented:

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Several fans expressed their opinions on Vanja's request and the phone call.

"Lawwd somebody from production take Vanja’s phone away..," said another.

"My god. This video call is crazy awkward. Vanja, just give it up," added a third.

"This phone call is… a lot. Vanja is desperate af," another wrote.

Some fans of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days urged Vanja to not beg Josko to get back into the relationship with her.

"Vanja…stop begging these men to be with you!" an X user wrote.

"If I'm getting the ick watching Vanja beg on national TV, I can only imagine how turned off these men are...," another user wrote.

"Vanja...stop begging!!!! NEVER let a man tell you he doesn't want to be with you more than once...," commented one.

"Vanja girl stand the hell up! These men keep dropping your *ss and you keep letting them back in with open arms. First Bozo. Now Josko," another wrote.

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More details of the conversation between Vanja and Josko on season 7 episode 19 of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days

During the video call on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days episode 19, Vanja told Josko that it was nice to see him again. She also asked how his kid was, to which Josko replied that he was great and running around.

Vanja then expressed that she missed hearing about his day. She added that since she was so used to talking to him every day, it was hard not to know what he was up to.

Josko said:

"I miss those calls too... now that's vanished, it's kind of hard."

Vanja further said she hated how "sudden and unexpected" their breakup was, and Josko agreed, calling it "harsh." Explaining his actions, Josko said that leaving his child with his parents while he cried for him made him think his decision through. He added that he took the tough decision for the kid because Vanja didn't like kids.

Josko said:

"You talked about how you arranged your house, "I don't want to mess it up, I don't want to see kids running around" destroying your stuff."

Vanja defended herself by bringing up their talk about changing her dancing room into a kid's room so he could be comfortable. She added that she was mentally preparing herself for a life with a child and that she found it sad it wasn't happening. She then asked Josko if he was still willing to see her on her trip to Croatia, to which he replied that he needed a couple of days to think and answer.

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New episodes of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 7 air on Sundays at 8 pm ET on TLC.