"I respect that" — 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fans praise Ingrid's mother for disapproving of Brian

90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days released a new episode on Sunday, October 27, 2024. It featured Brian's first interaction with Ingrid's mother, Luiza. While Brian looked forward to bonding with his partner's family, the same could not be said about Luiza.

Luiza disapproved of Brian because she feared he would take her daughter to a distant, foreign land after marriage. She wanted Ingrid to stay close to her family instead of relocating to America. Although Ingrid's father was absent, Luiza revealed he shared the same mentality.

Luiza refused to join Brian and Ingrid for lunch, unable to overcome her apprehension about their relationship. Meanwhile, Brian wondered if Luiza was not fond of people with disabilities. He called her behavior rude and unpleasant, especially as he was a guest and their daughter's partner.

However, 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fans supported Luiza's decision to create a distance between her and Brian. They claimed she could sense Brian's lies and past complexities because she was a mother. Fans took to X to praise Luiza for disapproving of Brian.

"I think Ingrid's mom saw Brian's gift for exactly what it was. His approach was offputting, too. He's old enough to be her father, and mom can't pull it together to be fake. I respect that."

A fan reacts to Luiza's demeanor (Image via X/@SideyeSage7)

"I respect the mother of Ingrid. She wasn't phony about it. She wasn't going to come around." Another fan commented.

"Mama and Papa Ingrid aren't pleased that Ingrid is trying to flee to America. Plus they heard that Brian is a crap husband and hitmen are expensive." A netizen tweeted.

90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fans approved of Luiza's treatment of Brian, stating she had every right as a mother to be critical of her daughter's partner. They claimed her "intuition" made him look off-putting to her.

"Ingrid's mom intuition has kicked in, she realizes a shady slime ball when she sees one! She's not feeling him at all," a user reacted.

"This mom does not look impressed with Brian she's not saying anything. She sees through his BS," a person commented.

"I don't blame Ingrid's mom Luiza. I don't think it has anything to do with Brian being in a [wheelchair] he is probably getting bad vibes from him. The man has been engaged and married multiple times plus was a dr*g dealer," another fan wrote.

"Yaaassssss momma knows. She sees right through Brian. Tell your kid to get away from his abusive a**." One user tweeted.

Meanwhile, some 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fans criticized Brian for forcing a meeting with Luiza. They also called him out for assuming she was judging him for being paraplegic.

"I mean Brian, this is all on you. Ingrid told you that her parents werent ready to meet you. She also told you her son wasnt ready to meet you. Stop forcing yourself onto people." A netizen reacted.

"Brian, there are so many other reasons why Ingrid's parents do not agree about your relationship, that you being on a wheelchair more likely is at the bottom of their list! You are also quite judgmental!" Another netizen commented.

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90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star Ingrid says she is unhappy with her mother's treatment of Brian

Ingrid's mother, Luiza, refused to join Brian and Ingrid during mealtime, raising concern among the couple. Ingrid confessed before the cameras that she felt her mother's behavior was "rude" and should have tried to "treat people well," irrespective of her opinion of them. Meanwhile, Brian wondered if Luiza was "put off" by people in wheelchairs.

During a confessional, Luiza revealed that neither she nor Ingrid's father accepted Brian. She explained she had no "prejudice against anything" but was upset that her daughter was dating to marry a man from another country.

"She's our only daughter and she had to stay close to us," Luiza said.

Brian thanked Luiza for the meal before taking his leave. While speaking to the cameras, the 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star confessed he had not anticipated the "rude" reception. He worried about how he could have a "meaningful relationship" with Ingrid if her parents did not accept him.

Ingrid confronted her mother, asking her why she did not join them for lunch, to which the 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days cast member's mother revealed she did not want to get to know him. Meanwhile, Ingrid worried that the tension between her parents and her 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days partner could hamper her relationship.

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90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days releases new episodes every Sunday at 8 pm ET only on TLC.