"Just as messed up as Sarper"— 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way fans criticize Shekinah for "excusing" cast member's "bad behavior"

90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6 aired episode 11, titled Eat, Play, Lie on TLC on Monday, September 9, 2024. The segment saw the aftermath of Sarper and Shekinah's physical fight, which was showcased in last week's episode.

In the latest segment, the TLC couple discussed the argument, and Shekinah demanded an apology. She opened up about her past relationship and the trauma associated with it. This made Sarper more regretful of his actions, and she forgave him for pulling out her hair extensions during the fight.

Fans of the show commented on the situation online and were critical of Shekinah forgiving Sarper. One person wrote on X:

"Shekinah is just as messed up as Sarper excusing his bad behavior will hurt her in the long run."

"Of course Shekinah took him back. She's her own worst enemy," a fan commented.

"Here we go again. It’s the same old fake story—Sarper acts horribly and makes Shekinah mad. Then he grovels and apologizes and she takes him back," a tweet read.

90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6 fans stated Shekinah was setting a "horrible example" for her daughter."

"Definitely surprising...Maybe for her daughter's sake, it's best if Shekinah forgets about her, cuz she's setting a horrible example of what is and isn't acceptable in a relationship...," a person wrote.

"Shekinah have YOU learned anything? You are going to have this man pick your nose when you have surgery!!!" a fan commented.

"I don’t know Shekinah, perhaps you pick controlling, angry men.. Did you ever consider you have a pattern that is destructive to yourself?" a tweet read.

90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6 fans asked Shekinah to "have some standards."

"Sarper’s way of showing his love is to throw away trash. Shekinah have some standards girl," a person wrote.

"Shekinah has no self-worth and is addicted to toxicity, narcissists, being abused and mistreated," a fan commented.

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The aftermath of Sarper and Shekinah's fight in 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6

In 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6 episode 11, Shekinah and Sarper talked about the fight they had in the previous episode. Shekinah asked the male cast member why he wanted her to "feel sorry" for him. She asked Sarper to "feel sorry" for what he did.

"Sarper you ripped my hair extensions out of my head. Have you even asked me one time if my head is okay?" Shekinah said.

The 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6 male cast member stated he "overreacted" because he felt overwhelmed by multiple things. Sarper said he just wanted to make her happy and Shekinah said it wasn't the way to make her happy. When he asked her to help him, she said no.

She told him she felt stupid and that her family was "right" about him. She told him about her past relationship, despite him not wanting to know about her dating history. She detailed her ex-boyfriend's behavior towards her and that he was "touching her in anger."

Hearing about the 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6 cast member's story, Sarper felt more regretful about his actions. She told him that she loved him more than anything but that he had to change his behavior. She told the cameras that he had never been held accountable for his actions, which was about to change.

She said he was lucky that she loved him enough to give him another chance but was putting her foot down. She added that she also had to think like a mother and that she would never want her daughter to think it was okay for someone to "disrespect" her like this.

The Other Way fans took to social media to react to the segment and were critical of Shekinah forgiving Sarper. They called her "her own worst enemy."

Episodes of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6 will air episode 12 on TLC on Monday at 8 pm ET next week.