"Not okay" — The Real Housewives of New York City fans criticize Brynn, Sai, and Erin for discussing Jessel's marriage

The Real Housewives of New York City season 15 aired episode 13 titled Dinner Disasters and Breakfast Breakdowns on Tuesday, January 7, 2025. It showcased Brynn, Erin, and Sai discussing Jessel's marital life with her husband, Pavit Randhawa, and commenting on their lack of intimacy.

Jessel and Pavit got "legally married" a year before their destination wedding in Riviera Maya, Mexico, in 2016. Their relationship, a topic of discussion in season 14 of the show, evolved into marriage after Jessel and Pavit spent years as friends and one as platonic roommates. However, their relationship raised eyebrows, as many struggled to vouch for its authenticity.

In the latest segment of The Real Housewives of New York City, Brynn, Sai, and Erin questioned Jessel's feelings for Pavit while demeaning their physical bond. They said it lacked romantic love and appeared more like a friendship. Brynn looked down on their intimate connection by comparing it with Sai and Erin's relationships with their respective spouses.

The ladies' banter about Jessel's marriage did not sit right with the fans of The Real Housewives of New York City. They took to X to criticize the cast members for ridiculing someone's private life.

"Yea, the way these ladies are talking about Jessel is not okay. Of course Brynn is the one who starts it. And Sai, I don’t think Pavit is checking for you at these events," a fan wrote.

"Brynn, Sai & Erin’s convo about Jessel & Pavit’s relationship is gross. Prime example of brown ppl being des*xualized, mocked, & in turn, dehumanized. So what if friendship is their foundation? Abe said he’d leave Erin with no s*x, Sai got David however, & we know Brynn," another fan commented.

"Started watching #RHONY then Brynn out of nowhere went in on Jessel's marriage (which I personally feel is an odd marriage of convenience by arrangement, not love), but still, that s**t came out of nowhere. So back burner it went again, she never learns," a netizen tweeted.

Many fans of The Real Housewives of New York City disapproved of their discussion about Jessel and Pavit's relationship.

"Honestly, the fact that these women harp of Jessel's marriage makes me think they are projecting about their own marital issues. Yes, I am looking at you Sai and Erin," a user reacted.

"Bryn is soooo unlikable this season (more than first season). Stop making up sh-t about Jessel’s marriage. Like WTF," a person commented.

"These b**ches love to hate on Jessel & her marriage. Why are they suddenly bringing up what Jessel allegedly said about who the love of her life is from last year’s cast trip?? Old drama that’s stale in an attempt to make Jessel look bad" another fan wrote.

"New #RHONY continues to lack authenticity. Brynn, Sai, and Erin proving they are wannabe mean-girls. They talk about Jessel because they refuse to share their own real life issues. No real storylines. BORING!" one user posted.

One The Real Housewives of New York City fan called the ladies "mean girls."

"It’s time to cancel this show! It gives NOTHING!! Just a bunch of gossiping women who act like middle school mean girls!" a person reacted.

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"My ignore game is top-tier" — The Real Housewives of New York City's Sai opens up about avoiding Pavit

While talking to Erin and Sai, Brynn revealed that Jessel allegedly called her ex-boyfriend the love of her life during a cast trip to Anguilla the previous year. She further disclosed that Jessel faced her family's disapproval when she wanted to marry him since he was not from her cultural background.

It compelled The Real Housewives of New York City star to question Jessel's feelings for her husband, Pavit.

"How do you f**k your husband when you are in love with somebody else?" Sai asked.

While speaking to the cameras, Brynn stated that although she did not know she would bond with Sai and Erin over "let's just make fun of Jessel," she was glad to have her "group thing" back.

Brynn said Jessel and Pavit were "co-piloting" since there was a lack of "romantic love" in their marriage. Meanwhile, Erin believed they were more like friends than partners. She added that she could never envision Jessel getting intimate with Pavit.

The ladies also criticized Pavit for calling Sai "bipolar" and a "b**ch." During a confessional, Sai revealed that although she had a good relationship with Jessel, she ignored her husband if he was in the same room.

"My ignore game is top-tier," she added.

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The Real Housewives of New York City airs new episodes every Tuesday at 9 pm ET exclusively on Bravo.