"Rude"— 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fans slam Adnan telling Tigerlily to be “careful” with her words at the Tell All

90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 7 aired its reunion special, the Tell All, this week on Sunday, January 12, 2025, on TLC. The segment saw most of the cast return to the reality show to discuss their lives since the cameras were put down.

Tigerlily, who had revealed her pregnancy in the season finale, was questioned about her relationship with Adnan. The cast questioned Adnan's behavior towards his wife and it prompted the cast member to leave the stage as he asked her to speak by herself to prove she was not afraid of him. However, as he left, he also told her to be careful about her choice of words.

Fans of the reality show commented on Adnan's behavior towards Tigerlily at the Tell All online and criticized him on social media. One person wrote on X:

"All while Adnan is condescending & rude and denying to the cast that he's controlling he just threatened Tigerlily. "Be Careful" he just told her. Lol omg what a joke he is. Good luck to her."

"The fact that Adnan said "careful" before Tigerlily talked shows just how controlling he is," a fan commented.

"Did Adnan just say Be Careful to Tigerlily !?! Girl !" a tweet read.

Fans of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 7 fans felt Tigerlily desvered Adnan:

"Tigerlily’s dumb a** is gonna be in for a ride while raising their son. Adnan is 100% going to want to raise their son how he was raised, making their son act just like him. I have no pity for her, he’s been like this since they’ve met," a person wrote.

"Adnan is an arrogant jerk. Tigerlily chose him, married him, had a baby with him and deserves him," a fan commented.

"Everybody trynna take up for Tigerlily to Adnan. If Tigerlily doesn’t seem to care anymore, I would’ve dropped the topic. Just like Faith. If they don’t wanna leave the situation, then leave em be. You can only try to help someone so much," a tweet read.

Fans of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 7 added:

"Adnan hasn't earned anything but contempt from everyone. I'll give Tigerlily credit, she's doing her best Tanya Tucker impression. She's standing by her man, and that's her choice to make," a person wrote.

"Tigerlily just wants to be married so she's willing to be controlled and verbally abused," a fan commented.

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The cast questions Adnan's behavior towards Tigerlily during the 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 7 Tell All

During the 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 7 episode 20, the Tell All part 1, Shaun Robinson questioned Tigerlily for agreeing with Adnan despite criticizing him and calling him "controlling" all season long about his rules. The host asked why the cast member was not "comfortable" expressing the same feelings.

As Vanja tried to chime in on the couple's dynamics, Adnan mocked her and said that it was the "worst" relationship she had ever seen. The 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star Niles said Adnan was trying to "justify" his "disrespectful" behavior.

The host asked Vanja if she thought Adnan was "imposing" rules of Tigerlily due to his religion while the female TLC star said those were "Adnan rules" as his mother had described them. Brian said Adnan had a small mind and compared his behavior to Sunny, who was also of the same religion.

Adnan explained that there was a "misunderstanding" as things often got lost in translation. Niles said everyone but Adnan was "wrong" and the latter asked if the 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star understood Arabic. Vanja chimed in and said that Adnan's mother had said a man shouldn't tell a woman what to do and that Adnan was doing the "opposite" of that.

Shaun asked Tigerlily how she felt when her husband's mother said that "no man should control" a woman. Tigerlily said she was trying to find the best way to phrase her answer.

"Be careful," Adnan interrupted her.

Brian asked if the 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star asked Tigerlily to be careful and Tigerlily said his restrictions were in a "positive way." She explained he didn't want her to be in a room with another man by herself to keep the marriage "strong."

Fans of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 7 commented on Adnan's behavior online and called him "controlling."

90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 7 airs new episodes every week on Sundays on TLC.