"The new Gino and Jasmine"— 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way fans react to lack of chemistry between Josh and Lily

90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6 aired episode 12 on September 16, 2024. The segment saw the couples navigate their relationships through a series of challenges. For Josh and Lily, that meant a lack of physical intimacy.

Lily showed Josh red sheets that were traditional to the Chinese culture and said that married couples spent their fight night after marriage on those sheets. She said that while they were supposed to bring happiness and prosperity, they also had other uses. She recalled not being intimate with Josh for a long time, and Josh said that he had been tired and sick.

90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6 fans commented on the conversation online. They compared the couple to Gino and Jasmine from Before the 90 Days.

"Josh and Lily are the new Gino and Jasmine. I don’t understand these men," a person wrote.

"They remind me of Gino and Jasmine, Gino never wanted to have s*x with Jasmine and Josh is to tired to have s*x with Lily. I don’t know how we can be too tired. It’s not like he has a job or anything," a person wrote.

"Aww Lily it's Not you, it's Josh, he's weird," a tweet read.

Many 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way fans felt Josh was not interested in Lily:

"Josh pulling the “ I have a headache” on his wife. Poor Lily," a fan commented.

Josh's excuses for not wanting to have s*x with Lily seem totally pointless!" a tweet read.

"A few days!??? What on earth are you tired from Josh!?!! You don’t have a job or anything to do!" a person wrote.

90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6 fans further said:

What’s all this phony baloney, back-and-forth between Josh and Lily? Aren’t these two legally married already?" a person wrote.

"Josh just wants to be a kept man with his lazy a**. Talking about he’s tired, has a cold and hasn’t adjusted to the time," a fan commented.

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Lily shows Josh the "red sheets" in 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 9, episode 12

In 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6, episode 12, titled No Hard Feelings, Lily showed Josh the traditional red bed sheets that are put on every couple's bed a night before the wedding. She told him they were supposed to bring happiness, prosperity, and "best wishes" to the couple.

Lily told Josh that while the bed sheet was for "good luck," it had other uses. She explained that in China, couples were not physically intimate with one another before getting married and told him she was excited. She said she hadn't been intimate in a long time, and she was looking forward to it.

The 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6 cast member told him that maybe they hadn't been very involved with one another since he had been tired. Josh added that he was "sick" as well.

"As soon as I lay down, I fall asleep," Josh said.

Lily told him she wanted to, and he said they had to wait for the "red sheets" now. Lily opened up about her and Josh's relationship dynamics in a confessional. She said she was "embarrassed" to admit that they hadn't been intimate since Josh had come to China.

The TLC star said they had gotten so used to not being around one another physically. Josh explained that he was still adapting to the changes in the weather and the time. She told him she didn't think he liked her body or that he didn't love her. Josh assured her that wasn't the case. He further told the cameras that he was physically and mentally exhausted.

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90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6 will air episode 13 next week on Monday, September 23, 2024, on TLC.