"This ain't love" — 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fans react to Brian and Ingrid's relationship

90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 7 released on TLC on Sunday, September 1, 2024. It features eight couples who look forward to meeting each other for the first time after dating online. Viewers will experience their journey as they travel to multiple foreign countries to forge a relationship outside the digital world.

A level of anonymity is always maintained when people interact through dating apps. They often keep certain parts of their lives concealed. When such aspects come to light, they come along with drastic consequences. In the season premiere of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, Brian and Ingrid's relationship hinted at that.

Brian is a quadriplegic, and Ingrid is a single mother. While Brian seemed certain about Ingrid, he wondered how she would react to his special needs. He had yet to disclose the full extent of his needs, his dating history, and the real reason behind his accident to Ingrid. Despite dating him for two years, Ingrid never showed any interest in knowing the details of his lifestyle.

90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, fans felt apprehensive about their relationship. While some criticized Brian for concealing the truth about his carjacking accident from Ingrid, others suspected Ingrid's intentions for not being actively invested in Brian's life. They took to X to express their views, convinced there was more to their relationship than met the eye.

"Ingrid hasn't even asked Brian about his accident and how he became quadruplegic? Nuh uh.. This ain't love.." a fan wrote.

"Brian's been married 4 times and he has a secret about the circumstances surrounding his carjacking? I hope there's still time to cancel my #TeamBrian jersey," another fan wrote.

90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fans were surprised Brian had another side to his carjacking story, which was not revealed. Many were shocked to learn he was married four times before, to women much younger than him.

"What do you mean there's more to the carjacking story?!?! BRIAN?????" a person commented.

"Okay Brian seems to have something going on other than his disability. That’s a lot of marriages, engagements, and relationships. Did he ever go to therapy?" another netizen wrote.

"Just so happens that all of the women that Brian falls in love with are much younger than him," a user reacted.

In the meantime, many 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fans criticized Ingrid for being too nonchalant.

"How do you date someone fore 2 years and not learn about their disability and how they cope with daily life. Not even a peak? Red flag, Brian! Love your energy btw," a person tweeted.

"DOES INGRID UNDERSTAND HOW MUCH ASSISTANCE BRIAN NEEDS?! He hasn’t been honest and I think he’s going to be disappointed. I’m ready for this season," one fan commented.

"Yall I am legit worried about Brian. Things are getting real and Im worried about him. He is going to Brazil to meet a woman who doesnt seem to ask questions," a netizen wrote.

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Ingrid is not the first Brazilian woman 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star Brian has dated

While introducing himself and disclosing the details of his personal life, Brian revealed that Ingrid was not the first Brazilian woman he dated. His daughter, Brianna, worried her father was repeating the mistakes he made in the past. She questioned if he was tired of going to Brazil and forming relationships with "different people."

"This is not my first time going to Brazil for love and even before I started going to Brazil, my relationship history was pretty tumultuous. I've been married four times, three have been American and one was Brazilian," Brian said.

The 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star added that he had several relationships in Brazil, including a "few failed engagements." He confessed most of those women were younger than him. Likewise, Ingrid is 20 years younger than him, which worried Brian's daughter, who suspected Ingrid's intentions behind pursuing Brian.

While speaking to the cameras, Brianna confessed she was used to Brian's trips to Brazil. They had become a "family joke." However, the 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days cast member wanted the relationship to last.

At the same time, he revealed that Ingrid did not know the "whole story" of how he ended up in a wheelchair. He only stated he was shot in a carjacking incident.

"My carjacking was not some random event. There's a lot more to the story. I know I need to tell Ingrid about my past. I just hope she can handle it," Brian said.

Meanwhile, he also expressed his concerns about Ingrid's nonchalance.

"Ingrid obviously knows that I'm in a wheelchair, but she doesn't know the details, the bathroom stuff, the s*xual stuff. She's never really asked me about it, which surprises me but maybe she's trying to comfort me, not make me feel out of place," Brian added.

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90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days airs every Monday on TLC at 8 pm ET.