"Totally catfishing her" — 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fans criticize Brian for lying to Ingrid about his age

90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days released its latest episode, Revelations, on Sunday, September 22, 2024. It featured the couples spending time together, striving to gain a better understanding of each other. However, as innocent as it seemed, some revelations scarred the couples' relationships.

Since the cast members connected over the internet they had the advantage of concealing and lying about many facets of their lives. Brian, a 51-year-old man, lied about his age to his partner, Ingrid. For two years, Ingrid believed she was dating a 45-year-old man. Consequently, she was shocked when she discovered the truth about his age in the latest episode.

The 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star listened in disbelief as Brian attempted to defend himself, saying he had already informed her. While talking to the cameras, Ingrid confessed that Brian was listed as a 43-year-old man when they first started talking.

Fans took to X to criticize Brian for lying to Ingrid about his age. They also expressed their surprise as they discovered how close Brian was to Ingrid's father's age.

"Brian been lying his age to Ingrid. He totally catfished her. Claiming he is 43 yet he is 51. Why would she want to date someone the same or near the age as her dad?" a fan wrote.

"Not Brian lied about his age lol. Them older dudes stay lying lol like sir you are not 45. Pls," another fan commented.

"Uh oh Brian lied to Ingrid about his age telling her he's 45 but he's really 51 that's not cool dude," a netizen tweeted.

Some 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fans claimed Brian knew he lied about his age and despite that, he tried to convince Ingrid that she was being forgetful.

"Brian trying to make Ingrid out to be forgetful about his age is wild. He knows he lied about his age," a user reacted.

"Brian knows he lied about his age. That smirk he had on his face when she stated he told her he was 45. He lied," one person commented.

"Brian can go to hell now. Instead of admitting he lied about his age (like so many people do on this show) he denies it and calls her crazy. I hope she rolls that gaslighting, lying a**h*le into a tree," another fan wrote.

"Brian 100% lied about his age!! His voice went all high-pitch!" a user tweeted.

Meanwhile, many 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fans expressed concern over Ingrid and Brian's age gap.

"YALL, Brian lied about his age. He has told Ingrid from the beginning he was 6 years younger than he is. He is 51. Almost the same age as her father. Why does this man lie about everything?" one person reacted.

"Brian is very close to Ingrid’s dad’s age. Wayyy too old for her. And it’s not fair to expect her to take on such a huge responsibility regarding Brian’s disability either. The druggy past was the straw that broke the camel’s back. It IS a big deal!" one fan commented.

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90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star Ingrid discovers Brian is around her father's age

Ingrid and Brian drove to meet the former's parents and friends in the latest episode. During the journey, Ingrid confessed not many knew about their relationship. She explained she struggled to share the news with her parents because they were "hardheaded and difficult." She claimed her father was the "pinnacle of ignorance."

While she talked about her father, Brian asked Ingrid how old he was. When Ingrid revealed he was around 50-54, Brian said:

"54? That's my age, come on man. I'm 51."

Upon seeing Ingrid's shocked face, the 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star took a defensive stance, asking, "You didn't know about my age?" However, Ingrid was convinced Brian was lying. While talking to the cameras, she revealed Brian told her he was 43 when they started talking two years ago.

The 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days cast member added that the fake age was "on his profile on the dating site." She wondered why he did not tell her the truth from the start. Caught in an impasse, Brian stated he was proud of his age and would never hide it.

Brian claimed there was a "miscommunication" and that Ingrid had nothing to worry about since age was just a number for him. He said he was still the same person Ingrid spent the last two years talking to.

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90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days airs every Sunday at 8 pm EST on TLC.