"Totally changed"- 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days' Matilda reflects on her new life with Niles

In episode 19 of 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days season 7, Matilda has undergone a significant transformation, both emotionally and in her life circumstances, after marrying Niles. As Niles was about to leave for the U.S., Matilda’s experience was marked by joy, longing, and anticipation for the future.

Their love story, while full of happiness, is also shadowed by the challenges that come with being separated due to logistical issues, including visa processes. Matilda reflects on the profound impact the relationship has had on her life and the changes she has undergone. She said:

"My life has totally changed. And now it's came together."

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90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days' Matilda and Niles: A new chapter together despite the distance

Matilda's emotional reflections after the wedding

After the wedding, Matilda shared her feelings about the change in her life. As she and Niles woke up the morning after their ceremony, Niles asked how it felt to be Mrs. Valentine. Matilda responded by saying:

"Finally, you have proven to me you are a man. I love it."

At the airport, when Niles was about to leave, in a confessional, Matilda revealed that she felt a deep sense of fulfillment, as her wish had come true.

"My wish has come true now. I am a married woman. My life has totally changed," she said.

Despite the joy of their marriage, the couple faced the reality of being apart for an undetermined period. Matilda expressed her sadness at Niles' departure, acknowledging that although she was happy, she would miss him deeply. She noted in a 90 Day Fiancé confessional:

"Right now I'm feeling sad because my baby's leaving me. And I'm going to miss him."

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Niles' perspective: A new beginning

For Niles, the wedding was a moment of self-realization. He had not anticipated marriage during his trip but expressed how Matilda had changed his outlook on life. In a confessional, Niles shared:

"Before I found Matilda, I thought that I was a man who would never get married. I would never have a family. But I never knew what I was missing until I found it."

He also mentioned his anticipation of the future, explaining in the 90 Day Fiancé confessional:

"I cannot wait for Matilda to come to America and we truly start our lives together."

As Niles prepared to leave, he shared how he was returning to Alabama as a married man, a fact that made him feel proud. He shared in a 90 Day Fiancé confessional:

"Today I'm going back to Alabama as a married man,"

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Long-distance love: Challenges and hopes

Matilda and Niles also discussed the undefined timeline of a possible move for her to the United States. Niles revealed he didn't research well about the visa process, explaining during a 90 Day Fiancé confession:

"I'm not really sure how long it'll take for Matilda to get to the United States. It could be anywhere from a few months. It could be years or more."

Although uncertain, he shared that he would be focusing on his job and making enough money, hoping it would enable them to be with each other sooner. Matilda complained about their separation for an unknown period from each other, however, Niles assured Matilda by saying:

"This is not, today is not goodbye. This is just, see you soon."

Further, in a touching moment, Matilda showed her care for Niles by praying for his safety before his departure. She asked Niles to kneel so that she could pray in her native Twi language. The prayer expressed her hopes for his well-being, stating:

"Lord, please protect my husband as he goes. Any misfortune or harm that will rise against him this morning, I nullify all that in the name of Jesus."

She also prayed for his success, adding:

"As he leaves, Oh God, grant him opportunities at work. Lord, never let him lack money."

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