"Very demure. Very mindful" — The Real Housewives of Orange County fans divided over Shannon's reaction to Tamra's comments

The Real Housewives of Orange County season 18 released episode 7 on Thursday, August 22, 2024. One of the episode's highlights was Shannon Beador and Tamra Judge's confrontation about the former's drinking problems. In a previous episode, the former friends argued when Tamra publicized Shannon's DUI case and mocked her habits.

After hearing that Shannon had reworked herself, Tamra invited her for a meal to discuss everything that unfolded and see if they could make amends. However, their conversation turned for the worse when Tamra started criticizing Shannon's alcohol addiction.

Shannon left the table to go to the restroom and calm herself, as she was frustrated by the remarks. The Real Housewives of Orange County star avoided the argument and composed herself instead. After she returned, she apologized to Tamra for leaving and confessed that she was trying to be her best version.

Fans of the show took to X to praise the cast member's demeanor despite the provocation. They acknowledged her growth as a person. However, some claimed it was unjust to tolerate so much and wished she had retaliated.

"See how Shannon walked away when Tamra mentioned her DUI and the fact that she drove into a house. She didn’t overreact or lose control, she just tearfully walked away. Very demure. Very mindful. #RHOC," a fan wrote.

"You don’t get brownie points for not fighting back. That’s pathetic to me. If Tamara wants to keep going low then Shannon needs to stop acting so morally high. Hit that Tamara in the throat with her own tea. Get your lick back !!! #RHOC," another fan wrote.

The Real Housewives of Orange County fans appreciated how quietly Shannon walked away from the argument instead of letting it take a toll on her mental health.

"This may be the hardest season that Shannon Beador has been through, but emotionally, this is the strongest and clearest we have seen her! You’re doing amazing! #RHOC," a person commented.

"Shannon coming back to the table after walking away just shows the growth she’s had #RHOC," one netizen tweeted.

"Shannon actually getting up and walking away from Tamra to take a moment instead of losing her cool is absolutely a change. #RHOC," a user reacted.

However, some The Real Housewives of Orange County fans claimed Shannon should have countered Tamra for her comments instead of getting emotional.

"SHANNON…stay there at that table and CUSS THAT TRICK THE F**K OUT! #RHOC," a fan commented.

"Shannon it's ok to hit BELOW THE BELT ask her where is her daughter lol, lady hell call Kelly for a good clap back stop all that Crying ASAP #RHOC," another fan tweeted.

"Shannon should have just kept walking…that’s the only way to handle people like Tamra #RHOC," one netizen wrote.

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The Real Housewives of Orange County star Shannon stated she had to "take a breath" because she was upset

Tamra Judge invited Shannon to share a meal and discuss past feuds. She wanted to test the waters and see if there was room for reconciliation. However, their conversation did not go as planned.

Tamra quickly lost control of her emotions and started criticizing Shannon's alcohol addiction. Shannon attempted to stop her, claiming she knew nothing about her. The Real Housewives of Orange County star's frustration peaked when Tamra reminded her of her DUI case.

"Okay, I gotta walk away for a second," said Shannon.

She left the table and went into the restroom, where she opened up about her feelings to someone on the phone. She was heard saying that Tamra had done nothing but hurt her and spread lies about her. She blamed The Real Housewives of Orange County cast member for damaging and defaming her character.

"I know what I did and I don't need f**king Tamra Judge to be the person that decides my punishment," said Shannon.

While speaking to the cameras, Shannon noted that Tamra was "lucky" she was not stooping to her "level." She confessed she was "strong" enough and knew how to handle the situation appropriately.

Shannon returned to the table and said:

"I apologize for getting up but that's what I'm learning. If I'm upset, I just gotta go take a breath."

When Tamra heard Shannon's ex John was suing her, she confessed she understood how difficult it must have been. Later, when she invited Shannon to a party, the latter got up and hugged her.

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The Real Housewives of Orange County season 18 will return with another episode on August 29, 2024.