"Not being real with me" - 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days star Brian accuses Ingrid of using him to get to the United States

90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days season 7 episode 15
90 Day Fiance Before the 90 Days Couple Brian and Ingrid (Image via TLC)

90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days star Brian thinks his partner Ingrid wasn't with him for the right reasons. While he wants to believe what she is saying her actions imply something else.

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In a preview clip for 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days season 7 episode 15, set to air on December 8, Brian confronts his fiancée, accusing her of not being honest with him and using their relationship as a means to move to the United States with her children.

"For me, you accepted this trip here, you accepted the hotel I paid for, and I... I truly feel that .. that you're not being ... being ... You're not being real with me. You're not being real with me. And I feel like you're using me to get to the United States with your children," he tells Ingrid.
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90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days star Brian is torn apart between believing Ingrid and trusting his gut

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In the preview for 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days season 7, episode 15, shared on the show's Instagram page, Brian sits down with Ingrid to discuss the current state of their relationship.

Brian expresses his feelings to his partners and implies that the intimacy and affection between them feel very lackluster and distant to him. He compares kissing her to kissing his grandma and says that their physical connection lately has been more like a platonic gesture rather than a romantic one.

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"We don't have anything. The kisses are like me kissing my grandma. Yes, it's nothing," Brian tells his 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days partner.

While Brian believes that the has been a dip in their emotional and physical chemistry, everything feels "normal" and "good" to Ingrid.

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Later in his confessional, Brian expresses his deep emotional conflict concerning his current relationship with Ingrid.

On one end he says that he wants to believe what his partner is saying and shows that he genuinely cares for her and sees a future with her. However, on the other hand, she says that Ingrid's actions don't match what she is saying.

"I really wanna believe what Ingrid was saying. I really deepened my heart and wanna believe what she's saying to me. But what she's showing me in her actions is just... there's not matching up," he said in his confessional.
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This difference between Ingrid's words and actions created a conflict within his mind. While he expressed his willingness to do everything necessary to spend the rest of his life with Ingrid, his intuition is telling him that his partner doesn't have the same level of commitment and is not in the relationship for the right reasons.

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Brian tells his 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days partner that he is looking for love and someone to be part of his life. He adds that he wants to feel things and be with someone who loves him. However, he believes that he doesn't feel all those things with Ingrid.

"I'm looking for love. I'm looking for someone for my life. I want feelings. I want someone who loves me. And I don't feel that with you," he tells Ingrid.
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He confronts her saying that she accepted the trip and the hotel he paid for, instead of accepting him. Brian tells Ingrid that she isn't being "real" with him and he believes that she is using him to get to the United States with her children.


90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 7 airs every Sunday on TLC.

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