"Really unhealthy" — The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On star Nick admits communication struggles with Sandy

The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On (image via Netflix/Tudum)
The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On (image via Netflix/Tudum)

The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On season 3 continues to deliver drama as couples navigate the complexities of love, trust, and commitment. In episode 8, titled You're Playing With Fire, Nick opened up about the difficulties he has faced in his relationship with Sandy, he admitted,

"I didn't take the time to check in with her and just sit with her and have these conversations that we're having now, which is really unhealthy."

As the couples reunited with their original partners after their trial relationships, tensions rose, and difficult conversations ensued. The episode, released on December 11, focused on the couples reflecting on their growth throughout the experiment and determining whether their relationships were strong enough to move forward.

While Nick confessed his deep love for Sandy, she doubted whether their old patterns might resurface. As The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On season 3 nears its conclusion, the couples are left to decide whether they will say “yes” to a lifetime together or choose to part ways.


The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On: Sandy, Nick, and a candid conversation with her family

A key moment in episode 8 of The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On season 3 came when Sandy and Nick joined her mom, Lori, and sister, Liz, for lunch. The conversation brought to light the challenges the couple faced during the experiment. Sandy explained how the experience was unbalanced for Nick after his trial partner, Vanessa, exited early. She shared,

“It was just... threw off the whole thing because he didn't have that, which obviously made him go a little cray-cray.”

Nick admitted that watching Sandy grow closer to her trial partner, J.R. was difficult for him. He said,

“Sandy essentially had her cake and eating it, too, because she got to be with somebody she enjoyed. And she knew I was alone, so there was no risk to her.”

However, Sandy refuted the notion, stating she didn’t feel like she had her way during the process. She explained that missing out on seeing Nick with someone else left her questioning the strength of their relationship. Reflecting on his struggles, Nick told Lori,

“I’ve never been this in love with anyone, and that’s cool, but it’s also scary. And I think I reacted to that poorly in our relationship because I was scared.”

When Lori privately asked Sandy about her dynamic with J.R., Sandy described him as grounded and calm. Lori commented that J.R.’s steadiness brought out a calmer side in Sandy, while Nick’s emotional intensity felt like a rollercoaster. Sandy admitted she was overwhelmed at times, expressing concerns about whether her old patterns with Nick would resurface after the experiment.


What else happened in episode 8 of The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On?

Episode 8 of The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On also explored the dynamics between other couples as they reunited and reflected on their time apart. While some mended their relationships, others struggled to find common ground.

J.R. admitted he didn’t love Zaina as deeply as she loved him, which Zaina called a “fundamental problem.” While she appreciated how the experiment strengthened their bond, she remained uncertain about their future. Meanwhile, Scotty and Aria struggled with differences in physical affection. Despite Aria’s efforts to improve communication, Scotty’s concerns led Aria to walk out, saying she couldn’t stay with someone who didn’t believe in her.

Mariah opened up to Caleb about her insecurities, admitting she felt undeserving of his love. While Caleb comforted her, he expressed uncertainty about marriage, citing the need for personal growth.

As for Sandy and Nick, the episode ended on a positive note. Despite their struggles, the couple expressed gratitude for each other and appeared committed to working through their issues. Nick hoped Sandy would forgive his past inconsistencies, while Sandy pondered whether Nick was the right life partner for her.


New episodes of The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On season 3 will be available on Netflix on December 18.

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