“There’s a miscommunication”— 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star Brain chimes in on Ingrid thinking he was younger in age

90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days released its fourth episode on September 22, 2024, at 8 pm ET/PT on TLC. The latest episode saw shocking revelations among the couples who are trying to prove that their fiance is also the love of their lives.

The latest episode saw Brian and Ingrid go for a drive towards Ingrid's town as Brian traveled to Brazil to meet the latter. Brian, who is a quadriplegic, leads an active lifestyle and has, in the past, opened up about his dating life. Ingrid starts the conversation as she ponders about his father's age. She reveals that his father would be around 50, which prompts Brian to give out a loud gasp.

To her shock, Brian tells Ingrid that he is 51, and she confesses that in their earlier conversations, Brian had told her he was 45. She also reveals that they met on a dating app two years ago, and he put his age as 43. This made her question Brian's legitimacy regarding other intimate details he shared with her, as he also mentioned that he was independent, which Ingrid disagreed with.

Brian tells Ingrid that he is "proud of his age." In a confessional, Brian expressed that there could be a mistake in their communication as he had been forthcoming with all the details about his life.

"Apparently, there's a miscommunication somewhere because I'm obviously 51. And I never told her that I was younger," said Brian in a confessional. "Either way, I don't think five years is a big difference. I mean, for me age is just a number. I'm still the same guy that she's been with for the last two years talking to. It didn't change anything for me."

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Brian reveals his troubled past on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days

The long drive prompted Brian to open up further. He revealed that he loved driving since it helped him forget about his past. Being handicapped, Brian could not walk but could drive, which helped him gain confidence. Ingrid poked further and asked Brian about the incidents that led to the accident and his eventual handicap.

Brian, visibly distraught, stated in his confessional that he never opened up to Ingrid about how he became paralyzed on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days. To the shock of Ingrid, Brian revealed that he used to sell drugs. He said he did drugs for five years and even used them before the fatal accident. He further said that the fast-paced lifestyle made him feel good as he was also popular in the area.

Ingrid was aghast as Brian revealed that his family stopped talking to him during that time, and he couldn't say no to the drug use. Feeling like a "zombie" whenever he looked in the mirror, Brian ultimately decided to leave it all behind after the accident. Ingrid confessed that she hadn't used drugs in her life and didn't approve of such activities.

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Ingrid's family is against her relationship with Brian on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days?

As the 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days couple traveled further in the car, both opened up to each other to get closer. Ingrid asked her fiancee what he wanted to do when they reached her hometown. Brian replied that he wanted to meet her family and friends and have a good time with them. Ingrid became hesitant and told Brian she hadn't talked about him to most people.

Ingrid also said that her parents might be against their relationship, and they were "hardheaded and difficult." She further revealed on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days that her father might be the toughest nut to crack amongst her family members as he was the "pinnacle of ignorance." Brian couldn't help but feel disappointed as he was looking forward to meeting the people who were important in Ingrid's life.

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90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days airs on Sundays at 8 pm ET/PT on TLC.