Relationships on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days often face significant challenges, ranging from cultural differences to personal misunderstandings. In episode 15 of season 7, the relationship between Brian and Ingrid reached a critical juncture.
The episode featured a tense confrontation between the two, during which Brian accused Ingrid of being insincere in her intentions, suggesting she was using him for financial benefits and a potential move to the United States.
Ingrid denied these claims, defending her sincerity and rejecting Brian’s accusations. The argument highlighted unresolved trust issues and culminated in an explosive disagreement, leaving their relationship on shaky ground.
Brian and Ingrid’s heated confrontation in 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 7
Accusations and denials
The tension between Brian and Ingrid on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days escalated after Ingrid discovered that Brian had been married four times instead of the two marriages he initially mentioned. This prompted her to question Brian's honesty and request space to process the new information. However, Brian viewed her reaction differently. In a discussion with his sister, he expressed his frustrations, stating:
"I feel like she’s using my past marriages as an excuse to step back. I don’t think it’s really about that."
Brian revealed his growing suspicions about Ingrid's intentions, which would later fuel the confrontation. When Ingrid reached out to Brian to discuss their relationship, their meeting quickly turned confrontational. Brian began by questioning Ingrid’s sincerity and commitment, stating:
"The words and the actions are different. I’m looking for love, a person for my life. I want someone who loves me, but I don’t feel that from you."
He further accused her of exploiting the relationship for material benefits, citing her acceptance of trips and hotel stays he had funded.
"You accepted the trip here. You accepted the hotel that I paid for. I really feel like you’re not being real with me. I feel like you’re using me to get to the United States with your children," Brian said.
Ingrid strongly denied these accusations, defending her intentions. She replied:
"Do you think I would have a better life there with you and my children But stop, stop, stop, due. That's not like that....What do you think I look like. Respect me."
Despite her assertions, Brian remained unconvinced, reiterating his belief that her actions and words did not align.
The argument’s escalation and aftermath
As the discussion continued on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, frustration mounted on both sides. Angered by Brian’s persistent accusations, Ingrid abruptly ended the conversation by storming out of the restaurant, saying:
"Distrustful. F**k off."
She highlighted that this was a significant turning point in their relationship, as neither seemed willing to address the underlying issues constructively. In a private confessional, Brian elaborated on his doubts.
"I really want to believe what Ingrid is saying. Deep in my heart, I want to believe it. But what she’s showing me in her actions, it’s just not matching up," he said.
He also admitted his willingness to fully commit to her. However, his feelings of mistrust overshadowed this willingness, stating:
"I was ready to do whatever necessary and whatever it took to be with Ingrid for the rest of my life."
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