What happened between Josh and Lily in 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6 episode 14? Disagreement explored

In 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6 episode 14, Josh's brother Jarod visited Josh and Lily in China. He asked his brother how things were going between the two and the male cast member opened up about his and Lily's arguments.

Josh said that although they were good, they had their "ups and downs." Recalling the recent argument, Josh said Lily told him all the things she did for him. He recalled her talking about how much money she spent on him. Jarod asked whether Josh felt she was trying to point out that Josh didn't contribute or if it could be a language barrier.

The TLC star's brother explained that the situation was overwhelming for both of them. In a confessional, he said that he wasn't shocked to hear of Josh and Lily's problems.

Later in the episode, while talking Jarod out for dinner, Lily asked her husband's brother if their parents were worried about Josh living in China. The conversation soon took a turn and the 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6 couple got into an argument.

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Lily talks to Jarod about her latest fight with Josh, resulting in another disagreement between the 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way couple

While going to dinner, Lily asked Jarod whether he thought she loved his brother, Josh. He said yes and the female cast member stated that she thought Josh didn't think she loved him.

She proceeded to tell Jarod about their argument from the previous night but Josh interrupted her, asking her why she needed to bring it up. The 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6 cast member told the cameras that the couple had many arguments since he arrived in China.

"I have felt very helpless. That's why I have to ask for help from his family. I believe because Jarod loves his older brother, he would be willing to help out with our marriage," she told the cameras in her native language.

Lily told Jarod that the previous night, she and Josh went out for dinner but the latter was "always" on his phone, texting. She recalled asking the 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way star who he was texting and imitating how he kept his phone on the table in a hurry.

Josh called her behavior "dramatic" as Lily continued the story. She said she didn't feel like eating after that. Josh stated that he was messaging before they sat down for dinner and he was texting his family. The 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6 star said he tried talking to Lily but she ignored him. He added that Lily left him at the restaurant.

"You know, it's not normal behavior," Josh said.

Jarod chimed in on the argument and said that it sounded like Lily was upset. Josh responded that Lily would get upset "easily" and for "no reason." The female cast member said the dinner cost her "500." Josh told his wife he knew how she loved telling him how much she spent on him. He added that it was all she talked about.

"When we meet, I know you poor people. You tell me you have no money, right? Yes, when we meet. When we first meet. But I'm still married with you. I told you, I don't care money," Lily said.

The male 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way star responded that he wasn't like her and didn't like "living in the past." He stated she liked to pick fights and "sabotage" their relationship.

In a confessional, Josh said Lily was still bringing up money despite knowing how it made him feel. He told the cast member that she was focused on showing the "world" that she was "right," and that she focused on creating "arguments."

Tune in next week to watch what happens next with Lily and Josh on 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6 on October 7, 2024 on TLC.