On Love is Blind: Habibi, Simo and Hajar formed a deep connection in the pods and got engaged. However, they faced challenges over key issues like where to live, family dynamics, and gender roles. Their bond weakened, and Simo ended the relationship by leaving the show without saying goodbye to Hajar in episode 5.
In his final confessional, Simo said,
"I had a problem yesterday. She didn't support me. If a woman is not standing with me, no..."
Unresolved conflicts and final goodbye in Love is Blind: Habibi
Hajar questioned Simo’s views on gender roles in their future household after their wedding in Love is Blind: Habibi. She asked if his wife would be allowed certain freedoms, such as a night out with friends. Simo’s firm response that this wouldn’t be acceptable created a noticeable rift between them.
While valuing her independence, Hajar found this restrictive. Simo’s traditional views clashed with her expectations for their relationship. This moment of tension summed up many issues that had been building up, such as conflicting values around family, independence, and gender roles.
The final trigger came when all the couples spent time together in Love is Blind: Habibi and Simo argued with fellow cast member Chafic. The confrontation stemmed from Simo revealing that Chafic had known another contestant, Nour, before the experiment. This escalated into a heated exchange between the two men, but what upset Simo most was that Hajar didn’t side with him during the argument.
Feeling unsupported by his fiancée, Simo’s frustrations reached a breaking point. Hajar later tried to address their issues and confront what had bothered her, but it was too late. Simo had already left the show without telling her goodbye. His departure signified the end of their relationship, with Simo believing that if Hajar couldn’t stand by him in difficult situations, their relationship wouldn’t work.
Differences in perspectives and family dynamics in Love is Blind: Habibi
One of the first significant cracks in Simo and Hajar's relationship surfaced during their conversation about where they would live after marriage. Simo expressed his desire to settle in Morocco, where his family lived and where he ran his business. Hajar, on the other hand, preferred Dubai, emphasizing her desire for independence.
She was concerned that living with his family would limit her freedom, whereas Simo believed staying with family embodied true freedom. Hajar expressed that she didn’t want to lose her autonomy, while Simo viewed family as an essential support system that couldn’t be left behind.
He expressed in a confessional, "We had some different perspectives on things. It doesn't mean she's not a good person."
Their differing visions of married life and where they saw themselves after the experiment began to create tension. This disconnect, especially concerning family values, set the stage for further misunderstandings between the couple.
Hajar remarked that her personality was challenging for him and vice versa, indicating that neither fully understood or appreciated the other’s needs. Simo, in turn, admitted to having a "big ego" but stated that he was working on improving it. Despite attempts to navigate their differences, the growing tension was evident in their every interaction.
Watch all the episodes of Love is Blind: Habibi, which are currently streaming on Netflix.